Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!!! I hope everyone is having a wonderful Thanksgiving! I'm playing Tombola (Italian Bingo)....hope I win some cash!

My despise for the "Catty Girl Syndrome"

This weekend I was blessed to be in the company of some very catty girls...oh lucky for me!!!

I'm not a catty, & it is hard for me to deal with girls that are. Honeslty, I don't understand why some woman are...what is the point of it all. Is being mean, cold, rude, and 2 faced really get you anywhere in life? I tend to believe not.

I loathe when people judge you for things that they really don't know about. Especially when they don't even know you- don't we all know that "assuming" makes an ass out of you?

Ok I'm done venting- had I written this before it may have been much worse. Bottom line - be nice to everyone, don't judge someone on something you know nothing about, and that occured years ago.

Quote of the Day

It’s not what happens to you, it’s what you do about it.
W. Mitchell

My sister sent me this quote today, and I couldn't agree with it more. Life is full of challenges, wins, losses, defeats, set backs, accomplishments, etc. How you get there, and what you do when you get there is really all that counts. It's not enough to just get to the place you want to be, or have something good or bad happen to you and then give up. You have to keep working on it, addressing the issue, and learning from your mistakes.

I'm in DENIAL...

Winter is offically starting...frost on my car in the am, pitch black at 4:30, trees are bare. I'm not ready for this.

My Quarter Life Crisis

Lately I have been so confused with what I want in my life. One minute I'm embracing the single life, and living it up- the next minute I'm wishing I had a man to cuddle me every night. Some days I love my condo and I'm so proud of myself for buying at such a young age. That is followed by me feeling trapped and wishing that I could just pick up and leave, move to the City or any other city but here. I wonder if my job choice is right..(still won't call it a career), wonder if I'm too old to still be pulling the same shenanigans that I did years before.

I think about it often, and wonder if I'm living life the way I should be. When I was younger things were so much easier, and I thought that I had it all figured out. In 8th grade (keep in mind I went to a Catholic grade school) I decided that I hated telling the priest all the bad things that I did that month, so I was just going to stop doing bad things. Now, the line between good and bad is blurred- have I lost the morals that I once had? I don't really know what I stand for anymore and it makes me so sad and disappointed with myself.

I'm searching for clarity, but don't even know where or how to start. How are we supposed to know that we are making the right choice? Does one right choice even exist- probably not. Do I feel trapped because I'm just too afraid to let go of what I know?

Could I just be going through a quarter life crisis two years late?

Dating Chronicles # 11, the short lived adventure with TB

I have taken a long break from my dating chronicles; but the stories must now go on!

I met TB at Betty's Blue Star Lounge; in my early 20's that was one of my favorite after hours place. I couldn't begin to tell you where I had been earlier that night- but I'm sure I had had a blast and was surely plastered by the time that I got there. It was just Micha and I that night. I recall that the two of us were minding our own business, dancing our asses off, when TB and his friend approached us.

I remember more drinking and more dancing. When the lights came on, TB asked me for my number; normally I would of given him a fake number, but I enjoyed his company and also enjoyed looking at him.

The next day, TB called me, and we decided to meet at a bar in between our houses...he lived in the City (burbs for me). At the time, I was still living at home, and my mother was less then thrilled that I was going to some random bar to meet up with a random boy that I had met at a bar the night before...if only she know all the bad things I've done! It was a good time...though he kept calling me boo and I wasn't having it.

Our dating was short lived- maybe 4 weeks. He had a problem that I still lived at home, I didn't want to have sex with him because I didn't trust him, and he worked may too much.

Yea that pretty much sums it up...only that to this day he will still randomly call or text me. I think that I've seen him maybe 3 times since...his head physically got bigger and I no longer think that he is nice to look at.

The Red Cup

Starbucks Love:

I can't believe it is already that time of year! I love when Starbucks uses the red cups! It's the little things in life that make me the most happy. This am i enjoyed Christmas in a cup!

Oh Blogosphere

I miss you so much! I await for the day when I can visit you frequently again. I hope that day comes soon...I have so much to share!!!